My Love Language is Sabotage

By Hannah Andrews
“If you want a Vegas wedding or the chance to file a restraining order, date an adopted person, or—really what I am saying: me.”
(Anne Heffron in You Don't Look Adopted)

This month’s theme is “Love, Relationships, and Intimacy,” and lucky for you, dear reader, I’m pretty much an expert. Thanks to adoption, I gained valuable insight into the human condition. From day one, I learned excellent attachment skills, including and in no particular order: hang on for dear life, leave before they leave you, and if ever things are going “too well” or when in doubt (and I’m ALWAYS in doubt) throw a wrench in it all—ASAP.

Sabotage equals survival.

Yes, I’m being facetious. Kinda.

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